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Indiscriminate Limerence :(

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L-F
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Re: Indiscriminate Limerence :(

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Idiotic wrote: Thu Jun 30, 2022 1:17 pm you gotta figure out what' works best for you
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AMA210
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Re: Indiscriminate Limerence :(

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IvB wrote: Thu Jun 30, 2022 9:22 am
Idiotic wrote: Mon Jun 27, 2022 6:02 pm
David wrote: Mon Jun 27, 2022 5:42 pm Still better to go NC for a period of time to get over the limerence iMJ
To be fair yeah, that's what I started out to do. But due to the complicated nature of the relationship could not do it , so I did the next best thing of extricating my emotional self out of the equation.... and eventually it worked .
Wondering if it may have helped, to see them regularly in order to stop putting them on a pedestal. I haven't seen my LO for almost 2 years and maybe not seeing him didn't give me the possibility to see his faults, to wear off the shine. Of course NC helps too and definitely gives me more peace of mind.
I have seen LO regularly, albeit once a month. Although, when I purposely decided not to see him for a 3-month period, I discovered that when I did see him again, and talked with him, there was literally not a sparkle left. It was really weird, as if all of the glitter had literally fallen off and I couldn't find a speck of it anywhere. Also, that glitter didn't return and it never will again. It's damn interesting how our mind creates this idealized version of them. :)
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Re: Indiscriminate Limerence :(

Post by IvB »

That's very well possible, Ama. My limerence is all in my head and in the online conversation with LO. We shared one single kiss and I seem to remember that it was nothing special!
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