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I am in a similar boat. LO is a coworker. It is exhausting. I only recently started coming to terms with the fact that we will never have that close relationship I yearn for.
We still interact due to mutual friends, but every interaction just seems forced and superficial. I recognize it’s my fault. My limerence and obvious feelings drove her away.
I can say that things are better than a year ago. And hopefully they will continue to improve (albeit slowly). Hang in there.
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I'm exhausted
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Re: I'm exhausted
Male, married
LO, married coworker/close friend
LO, married coworker/close friend
Re: I'm exhausted
I'll have to come to terms with that too, it's just so hard. Today was a bad day, he didn't even look at me. He seems madHenrySilver wrote: ↑Mon Feb 13, 2023 5:27 pm Welcome!
I am in a similar boat. LO is a coworker. It is exhausting. I only recently started coming to terms with the fact that we will never have that close relationship I yearn for.
We still interact due to mutual friends, but every interaction just seems forced and superficial. I recognize it’s my fault. My limerence and obvious feelings drove her away.
I can say that things are better than a year ago. And hopefully they will continue to improve (albeit slowly). Hang in there.
Weird how that goes with the conversations, it indeed feels so forced and weird for me. That's on me, I just wish I could be this normal me who actually is pretty fun
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