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I'm exhausted

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HenrySilver
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Joined: Fri Dec 16, 2022 2:30 pm
United States of America

Re: I'm exhausted

Post by HenrySilver »

Welcome!

I am in a similar boat. LO is a coworker. It is exhausting. I only recently started coming to terms with the fact that we will never have that close relationship I yearn for.

We still interact due to mutual friends, but every interaction just seems forced and superficial. I recognize it’s my fault. My limerence and obvious feelings drove her away.

I can say that things are better than a year ago. And hopefully they will continue to improve (albeit slowly). Hang in there.
Male, married
LO, married coworker/close friend
CeeDee
Posts: 9
Joined: Thu Feb 09, 2023 5:37 pm
Netherlands

Re: I'm exhausted

Post by CeeDee »

HenrySilver wrote: Mon Feb 13, 2023 5:27 pm Welcome!

I am in a similar boat. LO is a coworker. It is exhausting. I only recently started coming to terms with the fact that we will never have that close relationship I yearn for.

We still interact due to mutual friends, but every interaction just seems forced and superficial. I recognize it’s my fault. My limerence and obvious feelings drove her away.

I can say that things are better than a year ago. And hopefully they will continue to improve (albeit slowly). Hang in there.
I'll have to come to terms with that too, it's just so hard. Today was a bad day, he didn't even look at me. He seems mad 🤷‍♀️

Weird how that goes with the conversations, it indeed feels so forced and weird for me. That's on me, I just wish I could be this normal me who actually is pretty fun 😂
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